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(PAR-tee and play) verb. gayspeak word used in reference to getting high on methamphetamine and having sex. the anagram for party and play is p n' p or p and p Tod: "Hey Ted! I got a teener. Let's call Tad and Tim and see if they wanna party and play this weekend." Ted: "Ok Tod...but we BOTH know that Tim always getscrystal dick." Tod: "Doesn't bother me cause I want Tad to plow me." Ted: "Great! I'll do Tim." | |||
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Engaging in sexual activities while under the influence of drugs and alcohol, usually hard drugs. Term is most often used in the gay community and often suggests multiple partners. "I was so exhausted after a weekend of party and play that I slept for 18 hours." or "Jason and Michael were wise to use protection while they party and played." HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY) HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HUNG Refers to a man with a large penis. HWP Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight. INDOOR Swinging activities in general INDOOR SPORTS (See INDOOR) INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. IRL In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat ISO In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female LEATHER A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments. LESBIAN A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY) LTR Long Term Relationship MARITAL AIDS Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others. MASTER/SLAVE Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) MATROOM Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM). MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD) MORESOMES More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see GROUP SEX) MBC Married Black Couple MBiC Married Bisexual Couple MWC Married White Couple NASCA The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research. NEWCOMERS New people in swinging; First-timers. NONSMOKER Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes. OFF-PREMISE No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers. OPEN DOOR (see OPEN SWINGING) OPEN SWINGING A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy. ORAL-GENITAL (see FRENCH, CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD) ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PARTY Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PARTY HOUSE (Western US) A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. PASSIVE Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE) PHOTO Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. P/P Photo and phone number (used in personal ads). PRO Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts. RECREATIONAL SWINGER A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment. RESTRAINT Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments. ROMAN Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE) ROMAN CULTURE Sexual orgies RUBBER Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SAFE Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically sterile. S.A.S.E. Self-addressed stamped envelope. SBF Single Black Female SBiF Single Bisexual Female SBM Single Black Male SGL (see SINGLE) S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM) SINGLE A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social. SOCIAL SWING CLUB A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important. SODOMY Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE). SRS Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING). STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STR or STR8 (see STRAIGHT) STRAIGHT Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHT Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive) SWAPPING Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity. SWEDISH CULTURE Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another SWF Single White Female SWING MAGAZINE A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved. SWINGING LIFESTYLE Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships. SWINGING MARRIAGE Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals. SWM Single White Male TAN Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS) THREESOME Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois) TICKET A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing. TOYS Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS) TRANSEXUAL Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion TRANSVESTITE A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual. TRAVEL (see CAN TRAVEL) TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD) TUBAL LIGATION Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VASECTOMY Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male VERSATILE Bisexual. (see AC/DC) VIBRATOR Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts VOYEURISM Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity. WAY-OUTS/ WEIRDOS Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional RisksBesides the inherent risks involved with drug use, health officials have found a strong correlation between drug use and unsafe sex practices.[5] As such, PNP practices are cited as the cause of rising HIVrates in the gay and bisexual male community and other men who have sex with men.[6] San Francisco's STOP Aids Project and the Mayor of San Francisco's Crystal Meth Task Force have reduced methamphetamine use from 18% in 2003 to 10% in 2005 of gay and bisexual San Franciscans PNPing. The STOP AIDS Project has been heavily involved due to the common link between methamphetamine use and sex—PNPing.[citation needed] The same drug-induced loss of inhibitions makes PNP enthusiasts more vulnerable to more immediate threats, such as robbery, date rape, or assault by someone whom they meet for sex.[citation needed] [edit]StatisticsMen who PNP with methamphetamine, cocaine, MDMA, andketamine are twice as likely to bareback (have unprotected sex, meaning sex without using a condom), according to British research. The study also found that up to 20% of gay men from central London gyms have tried methamphetamine, the drug most associated with PNPing.[7] [edit]Club cultureThe term party and play - and pay has emerged as a warning that Partying and Playing leads to bareback sex which increases the chances of contracting HIV and may result in other consequences such as neurological damage[8] and resistance to HIV drugs[citation needed].
Methamphetamine can cause sores and abrasions in the mouth which can turn typically low HIV risk sex acts such as oral sex into very high risk sexual activity and transmit HIV.[9] [edit]See also[edit]Notes
Party and playFrom Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Party and play (PNP or PnP), also known as a chemical session, chem session, or simply as partying, is a phenomenon and subcultureof recreational drug users who engage in sexual activities with one another, either one-on-one or in groups.[citation needed] The term is often but not always used by and associated with homosexuals[1] and men who have sex with men (MSM). The drug of choice is typically methamphetamine, known as crystal or tina in the gay community. Other "party drugs" such as MDMA and GHBare less associated with this term.[2] It has been called both an "epidemic" and "plague" in the gay community.[1]
Had no idea what P&P was, so I looked it up 1. P&P (verb) to "Party & Play". Term seems to originate from Craigslist and/or other personal ads where the poster of the ad is in search of someone to Party (Do drugs. Usually Crystal Meth.) and Play (Engage in sex acts or intercourse.) with, just for the day/night. This term seems to be most prevalent among homosexual men. Sometimes you are attracted to people without even thinking about it. When people say they aren't into the bad boy type or pretty boy type, they are still into something. A good number of the serial killers out there are just normal and nice looking people. Home Made Brazil Tubes - 1892 Movieshomemadesextube.com/vs/niches/brazil1.php 27:38. tube8. Download · Brazil couple caught... 16:52. xhamster. Download · Brazilian Carnival. 22:16. tube8. Download ... 18:05. tube8. Let's face it folks. We now have a situation on our hands where the police have special units now to do nothing but focus on internet sex crimes. A lot of lonely people are going to become victims inviting what they think is Francois Sagat's clone over to their house only to discover they have allowed the worst nightmare of their life into their home. Sexual and freaky but they seem ...bored? Oh and I have had one very bad A4A hookup. I learned my lesson and am very grateful to have my health and life! This was some years ago but I cannot emphasize enough to please be CAREFUL when you play. And please be wary of these party favors boyz!! ![]() 13. If the guy came in his own car, search the trunk to see if he has any duct tape, rope, surgical tools, or guns in there. He could be planning some extracirricular activities. 14. Carry a .357 Magnum in your waistband just in case. If he notices a bulge in your pants, just tell him that you are excited to see him. ![]() 15. Trust your instincts. If you get a bad vibe from him, walk away. Don't let good looks or a hot body block what you are feeling. There's always another dude out there. ![]() Ok..We get it..Be careful.. Two Rod 2.0 regulars have additional and more disturbing sightings. Dave in Amityville, Long Island writes: "After reading your post about Fermaintt, I got to thinking ... this dude looked really familiar. But wasn't sure where I've seen him. So after doing a little searching, I realized I've seen him on tube8. This dude was whacking off with some other dudes [and] out of control." Dave adds this warning: "Although he looks in his pictures very clean cut, clearly he dabbled in destructive behavior." A number of screen captures have been taken from the amateur PNP sex video uploaded by "Crave", a play on the Rican2Crave screen name. Given the circumstances and the homicide investigation the tape may be pulled. | |||
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1. Don't treat other guys like pieces of meat. Spend some time (preferably, a couple of days) with them before going to bed. Go to movies, go out to dinner, take a walk in the park...
2. Pay attention to what the guy says: if all he is interested in is how much you earn, where you work, how much your apartment cost, what is your salary, etc. instead of asking you what you like in a guy or what movies you have seen recently - be extra cautious.
3. Make sure that the guy you are inviting home is not physically stronger than yourself.
4. Make sure the guy doesn't have an empty backpack or a bag with him. That would indicate that he wants to rob you.
5. Make sure that you have the guys's phone number and spoke to him after calling that number. Write down the number and hide it from him.
6. If you are a middle-aged average looking guy and some young, muscular, extremely attractive guy is passionately interested in you - be doubtful. If it's too good to be true, its too good to be true.
7. Hide all the knives, ropes and other things that an invited stranger can use to hurt you.
8. If you are under physical attack in your own home - make as much noise as possible to alarm neighbors or throw a chair into the window: better to break up a window than to end up dead. Robbers and killers are afraid of noise.
9. Don't drink alcohol, water or anything that can be tampered with while you are in a bathroom. Don't use drugs during an encounter. Don't show any money or valuables to the guest. Don't let him tie you up or put handcuffs on you, even as a joke.
10. If the guy doesn't seem to be horny and doesn't have an erection at any point - he might be a straight guy wanting to murder or to rob you.
11. If the guy has tattoos that don't seem to be decorative but rather symbolic (gang-related) - be careful.
12. If the guy is more interested in your furniture, paintings, valuables, etc. instead of looking mostly at you - be alarmed.
Should I go on?