or she could have used protection when she was having sex, and then she wouldnt have had to go through that. having children can be put off until a woman thinks she is ready, in the mean time, unwanted pregnancy can be easily prevented, which leads to less people having messed up lives.
Virginity pledges work for kids who don't want to have sex, and also, occasionally, for kids who can't hook up because they are locked in a cage, hideous looking, or socially retarded.
all ppl are obssesed but other cultures hide this like hypocrites or they (specially southern asians and africans) abuse very young girls or even childs by'''mariage''